Here are some common challenges women are experiencing in their sexuality. Do you relate?
There is a lot of taboo about women enjoying sex and “good girl syndrome” is prevalent among most women, wives and mothers. In an era where most of us were raised religiously, felt a lot of shame about our sexuality, and experienced some form of sexual abuse, there is an amazing opportunity to heal our sexuality and transform our own lives and relationships. This will alter what is passed on to future generations, contributing to a world with more people having a healthy relationship to their sexuality and feeling empowered to make choices that are right for them.
It is also common to default to the same way to reach climax. Through the same movements, clenching or tightening your muscles, thinking of the same fantasy, or with a vibrator.
Most of us think that our orgasms are the same as men’s, building energy to climax, and then quickly fizzling out. That is typical through clitoral stimulation, but women’s bodies can experience many other types of orgasms including valley orgasms, which are very different than the climax most of thing of as orgasm.
Being performative and worrying how you look during sex is also very common. A whole new world of freedom and confidence awaits!
Feeling nervous?
It can be hard to know who to talk to and scary to get the support you need. I have been there, and I know how terrifying it can be to have another human know such intimate details about you. I also know how incredibly life-altering it is to receive unconditional love and support for the most tender parts of myself, and to realize my experiences were much more more normal than I thought. What often seems like a terrifying, mysterious monster lurking in the darkness, is usually not as bad as it seems! It may even be a beautiful, flowery garden, just waiting to be seen and given permission to bloom.
Healing your sexuality and expanding your pleasure can produce many unexpected benefits
Women who love their sexuality, invite pleasure into their life intentionally, and have lots of orgasms, often:
- Look radiant and glowy
- Feel nourished from within
- Feel happier
- Feel vital energy flowing through their body
- Feel creative and flowy
- Naturally inspire men to protect and provide for them
- Have healthy ovaries, breasts, and sexual organs
- Are super fertile, get pregnant easily, and have healthy pregnancies and uncomplicated births
- Are magnetic and attract people and opportunities that are good for them
- Feel worthy and lovable
- Trust in life and know that things are working out for them
- Receive their desires easily
- Feel secure in their relationship
- Feel confident teaching their children that sexuality is normal and healthy, and how to have appropriate boundaries
- Love to nurture, and are giving from a full cup
- Receive easily and ask for help
