Unlock your Sexuality and Feel More Pleasure
Your beautiful body holds the key to ecstatic states of pleasure, oceans of love, and deeply profound wisdom.
Your feminine essence thrives in pleasure. Is nourished by pleasure.
Meeting Yourself Where You Are
The first step to unlocking your sexuality is to meet yourself right where you are.
As the Queen of your life and body, you get to choose what kind of Queen you’d like to be. Do you want to be a Queen who loves and has compassion for her subjects and land? Or do you want to be a Queen who criticizes and judges?
Your body, thoughts, and beliefs are your subjects and land in this scenario. As the Queen, you can choose to create a safe place for the parts of you that are scared, in pain, or are hard to like.
The more acceptance and safety these parts feel, the more they will begin to show themselves to you and become available for healing.
Tuning into Self-Love through your Heart and Breasts
Your breasts are an extension of your heart and are receptacles of love and self-love.
By connecting with your breasts through meditation and breast massage, you can begin to feel and magnify the unconditional love of the universe that exists within you.
Begin by repairing your relationship with your breasts if you have judged them or disliked them. Take a moment to cup your breasts, one in each hand. Take a moment to feel the sensations of your hands holding your breasts, and then begin speaking to them. You can tell them you’re sorry, you love them, they are beautiful, and anything else you feel inspired to say.
When that feels complete, bring a smile to your face and imagine sending your smile to your breasts. You can look down at them, maybe even bounce them up and down a little, and feel the energy of your big smile radiating inside of them. (If it feels like a fake smile at first, or awkward, thats ok!)
When this feels complete, you can release your hands and lay down on your back. Begin breathing into the center of your heart. On the inhale, feel the center of your heart and the love that is there; and on the exhale, feel your heart, chest and body soften and relax. Continue this breath and when you can feel the love in your heart expanding, begin magnifying the sensations and sending it to your breasts and body on the exhale.
Allow your whole being to be nourished in a love bath <3 Continue this as long as you desire. When you're ready, you can lift your hands above your head, and relax them on the ground. Continue breathing into your heart and feel your whole body relaxing into the ground, releasing tension and surrendering to the love that exists within and around you. If you'd like to learn more or be guided through breast massage or meditation, please feel free to reach out! Unlock Your Orgasmic Energy
As a woman, your body has the capacity to feel immense amounts of pleasure, and most woman only have experienced about 10% of what is possible! What we have learned about sex has mostly been modeled by men’s sexuality, which has a peak orgasm and then quickly diminishes.
Most women are also used to experiencing peak orgasms, which are usually stimulated by the clitoris. Peak orgasms can feel amazing, but there are three reasons why it can be highly beneficial to open up to knew ways of orgasm (besides it just being exciting!)
- Peak orgasms is often stimulated out of habit, by the same strokes, vibrator or fantasies. It can feel hard to deviate from what you know works.
- Women usually contract their body when they are having a peak orgasm, sometimes contracting muscles even to help them reach orgasm. This isn’t necessarily bad, but it means she is missing out on even more intense pleasure when her body is totally relaxed.
- Now for my favorite. There are countless other types of orgasm available to women. The first I’d like to share with you is a valley orgasm. A valley orgasm is stimulated in different ways, and can take some practice to awaken the new channels of pleasure. It is waves of orgasmic energy that may feel more subtle (but can also feel very intense), and can last longer and course throughout your body. Valley orgasms are usually experienced by deep vaginal or cervical stimulation. It is also possible to have energy orgasms, breast orgasms, throat orgasms + so much more.
Playing with and expanding your orgasmic nature has many benefits besides the delicious pleasure. The healing and integration that comes with the process of expanding your orgasmic nature allows for you to heal pain or disconnection from yourself and your body. It also gives you access to healing, nourishment and increased creative energy. You will be oozing radiance from the inside out!
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